Part Three of Three : L(L) Speaks with Alliance for Women President Erin M Fuller on Leadership and Work-Life Integration.
Erin M Fuller is the President of the Alliance for Women in Media, the longest established professional association dedicated to advancing women in media and entertainment. With nearly 10,000 community members, the Alliance for Women in Media represents men and women engaged in creating high-quality media and harnessing the power of women in all forms of media to empower career development, engage in thought leadership, and drive positive change.
Ms. Fuller is on the advisory board for the Women in Politics Institute at American University and is the President of the American University Alumni Association Executive Board. She is a Fellow of the American Society of Association Executives and teaches as a guest lecturer on non-profit management at American University.
Prior to joining the Alliance for Women in Media, Ms. Fuller previously served as the executive director for Tysons Tomorrow and as the chief staff executive for the National Association of Women Business Owners.
L(L): What information do you think is most valuable for women to know about leadership, and about how to be an effective leader?
EMF: I’ve taken a lot of leadership classes and training, but really – I chafe a little at the idea that leadership is different for women than it is for men.
I think leaders are different by definition and there aren’t universal similarities that are true for all women leaders. Everyone’s heard that generalization that women are great at relationship building, nurturing, and collaborating but we all know women who are very successful but not collaborative. On the other hand, we see images of really cold and dreadful female leaders – think of the Miranda Priestly character in The Devil Wears Prada. I don’t like that there’s a dichotomy that the only people who are successful have to be that character.
Generation Y is lucky in so many ways. For the most part, you women have grown up with so much more diversity than previous generations and have seen women in far more advanced roles. You see leaders as leaders and not through a gender-based lens.
Leadership is about respect. I always think that you know it’s time to leave a job when you look at your boss and think, “I could do that job better than that person.” Ideally you want to look at someone and think “How on earth does she do what she does? I have no idea how she’s able to manage it so gracefully.” There’s a huge amount of leadership that is learned over time and you have to be patient and respect that.
The last thing I’ll say about leadership is it doesn’t hurt to have a sense of humor. To acknowledge the absurd or ridiculous that happens in one’s career. To be in charge doesn’t mean you’re not supposed to be able to laugh at what happens.
L(L): You’ve worked a lot with women leaders in the fields of politics, media and business. Within these distinct fields, what do you view as the biggest challenges women face?
EMF: The women’s movement isn’t over. It’s frustrating sometimes to hear how people approach this issue. For the first time in 2010, we lost ground in the Congressional elections. Today there’s a sense that because decades ago we burnt bras and now we have a few leaders like Carly Fiorina and Hillary Clinton, we’re done.
But we can’t be satisfied with having just a handful. In politics, we have a practice that women don’t run for office until their families are grown up. They don’t want to expose their kids and their personal lives to all the mudslinging that happens in political campaigns – especially to female candidates. As such we miss out on a whole bunch of seniority and leadership opportunities in our lifetimes. This is where gender equity is struggling.
As for media and business – we know media lags behind other industries. Only 3% of media companies have female CEOs. Generally speaking, women tend to shy away from opportunities where they are profit and loss concerns on the table, where there’s money to be made. We see a lot of women go into HR and Marketing, but you don’t make money in those functions. It’s often in sales and revenue generating parts of business where you’re more likely to make money and where there are more opportunities to be leveraged.
L(L): You’ve said before that one of your goals is to make gender-based organizations and the issues they face relevant to younger women. What is difficult about getting today’s young women energized around gender-based issues?
EMF: It is harder today to engage younger women in traditional gender based organizations – a lot of times people think, “Aren’t we done with that?” Sure, women make up 51% of the workforce – but you have a glass ceiling and a sticky floor. And the idea of work-life balance doesn’t help – I see it as a total myth.
L(L): Why is work-life balance a myth?
EMF: You stick around a job that’s become comfortable because you see it as the way you can balance everything.
We have the opportunity to bring enthusiasm around a whole new set of issues involving work-life integration. Young women don’t want to have to feel they are torn between work and home. I am a mom and I understand the conflict and stress involved. I think there’s a real opportunity for Generation Y to redefine work-life balance.
Work is more flexible now. Everyone has a smartphone. You have email access 24/7. If you really need someone, you text them. Whether you have to work at your desk or be in a cube – the bottom line is that work has crept into crevices beyond 9 to 5. For me –if I have to make a phone call at 2pm to get my kid on a summer camp list, I’ll do that and that’s okay. I know I’ll still be checking my e-mail at 9pm.
For aspiring young women today, I think work-life balance is an illusion and work-life integration is a reality. The good thing for young women to know is that greater autonomy comes the longer you work somewhere. If you’re the boss, you can set your own schedule.
Honestly, what you’re doing at 24 is not what you’ll be doing at 30, when you’re going to be grappling with more family issues. Some things have gotten better in the last decade – for instance, Dads are so much more hands-on. But it’s still really hard. I get paid to be an advocate for women – but I’ll tell you, I kill myself to drop my kids off to school, make nutritious meals for them, and do my own work. It’s really challenging. I would never give up my kids and I would never give up my job.
It’s such an exciting time to be working and to be part of so much newness going on – I’d hate for young women who also want families to give that up. We’re going in a new direction for what it means to be working.
L(L): Okay, last question. Ones to Watch. Most Powerful Women. Most inspiring. So many lists are out there… Who is on your list?
EMF: I’ll give you just a handful of my personal favorites: women across all types of media. Here goes!
Beyonce, Adele, Tina Fey, Kristen Wiig, Amy Poehler, Samantha Bee, Rachel Maddow, Hannah Storm, Katie Couric, Gayle King, Hillary Rodham Clinton, Michelle Obama, Suzanne Collins (author of the Hunger Games trilogy), and (as for literary characters) Katniss Everdeen.
[Author’s Note: For any Levo Ladies working in media or affiliated industries, check out the Alliance for Women in Media, which has free community membership and weekly news briefs on career progress for women in media.]

![Part Three of Three : L(L) Speaks with Alliance for Women President Erin M Fuller on Leadership and Work-Life Integration.
Erin M Fuller is the President of the Alliance for Women in Media, the longest established professional association dedicated to advancing women in media and entertainment. With nearly 10,000 community members, the Alliance for Women in Media represents men and women engaged in creating high-quality media and harnessing the power of women in all forms of media to empower career development, engage in thought leadership, and drive positive change.
Ms. Fuller is on the advisory board for the Women in Politics Institute at American University and is the President of the American University Alumni Association Executive Board. She is a Fellow of the American Society of Association Executives and teaches as a guest lecturer on non-profit management at American University.
Prior to joining the Alliance for Women in Media, Ms. Fuller previously served as the executive director for Tysons Tomorrow and as the chief staff executive for the National Association of Women Business Owners.
L(L): What information do you think is most valuable for women to know about leadership, and about how to be an effective leader?
EMF: I’ve taken a lot of leadership classes and training, but really – I chafe a little at the idea that leadership is different for women than it is for men.
I think leaders are different by definition and there aren’t universal similarities that are true for all women leaders. Everyone’s heard that generalization that women are great at relationship building, nurturing, and collaborating but we all know women who are very successful but not collaborative. On the other hand, we see images of really cold and dreadful female leaders – think of the Miranda Priestly character in The Devil Wears Prada. I don’t like that there’s a dichotomy that the only people who are successful have to be that character.
Generation Y is lucky in so many ways. For the most part, you women have grown up with so much more diversity than previous generations and have seen women in far more advanced roles. You see leaders as leaders and not through a gender-based lens.
Leadership is about respect. I always think that you know it’s time to leave a job when you look at your boss and think, “I could do that job better than that person.” Ideally you want to look at someone and think “How on earth does she do what she does? I have no idea how she’s able to manage it so gracefully.” There’s a huge amount of leadership that is learned over time and you have to be patient and respect that.
The last thing I’ll say about leadership is it doesn’t hurt to have a sense of humor. To acknowledge the absurd or ridiculous that happens in one’s career. To be in charge doesn’t mean you’re not supposed to be able to laugh at what happens.
L(L): You’ve worked a lot with women leaders in the fields of politics, media and business. Within these distinct fields, what do you view as the biggest challenges women face?
EMF: The women’s movement isn’t over. It’s frustrating sometimes to hear how people approach this issue. For the first time in 2010, we lost ground in the Congressional elections. Today there’s a sense that because decades ago we burnt bras and now we have a few leaders like Carly Fiorina and Hillary Clinton, we’re done.
But we can’t be satisfied with having just a handful. In politics, we have a practice that women don’t run for office until their families are grown up. They don’t want to expose their kids and their personal lives to all the mudslinging that happens in political campaigns – especially to female candidates. As such we miss out on a whole bunch of seniority and leadership opportunities in our lifetimes. This is where gender equity is struggling.
As for media and business – we know media lags behind other industries. Only 3% of media companies have female CEOs. Generally speaking, women tend to shy away from opportunities where they are profit and loss concerns on the table, where there’s money to be made. We see a lot of women go into HR and Marketing, but you don’t make money in those functions. It’s often in sales and revenue generating parts of business where you’re more likely to make money and where there are more opportunities to be leveraged.
L(L): You’ve said before that one of your goals is to make gender-based organizations and the issues they face relevant to younger women. What is difficult about getting today’s young women energized around gender-based issues?
EMF: It is harder today to engage younger women in traditional gender based organizations – a lot of times people think, “Aren’t we done with that?” Sure, women make up 51% of the workforce – but you have a glass ceiling and a sticky floor. And the idea of work-life balance doesn’t help – I see it as a total myth.
L(L): Why is work-life balance a myth?
EMF: You stick around a job that’s become comfortable because you see it as the way you can balance everything.
We have the opportunity to bring enthusiasm around a whole new set of issues involving work-life integration. Young women don’t want to have to feel they are torn between work and home. I am a mom and I understand the conflict and stress involved. I think there’s a real opportunity for Generation Y to redefine work-life balance.
Work is more flexible now. Everyone has a smartphone. You have email access 24/7. If you really need someone, you text them. Whether you have to work at your desk or be in a cube – the bottom line is that work has crept into crevices beyond 9 to 5. For me –if I have to make a phone call at 2pm to get my kid on a summer camp list, I’ll do that and that’s okay. I know I’ll still be checking my e-mail at 9pm.
For aspiring young women today, I think work-life balance is an illusion and work-life integration is a reality. The good thing for young women to know is that greater autonomy comes the longer you work somewhere. If you’re the boss, you can set your own schedule.
Honestly, what you’re doing at 24 is not what you’ll be doing at 30, when you’re going to be grappling with more family issues. Some things have gotten better in the last decade – for instance, Dads are so much more hands-on. But it’s still really hard. I get paid to be an advocate for women – but I’ll tell you, I kill myself to drop my kids off to school, make nutritious meals for them, and do my own work. It’s really challenging. I would never give up my kids and I would never give up my job.
It’s such an exciting time to be working and to be part of so much newness going on – I’d hate for young women who also want families to give that up. We’re going in a new direction for what it means to be working.
L(L): Okay, last question. Ones to Watch. Most Powerful Women. Most inspiring. So many lists are out there… Who is on your list?
EMF: I’ll give you just a handful of my personal favorites: women across all types of media. Here goes!
Beyonce, Adele, Tina Fey, Kristen Wiig, Amy Poehler, Samantha Bee, Rachel Maddow, Hannah Storm, Katie Couric, Gayle King, Hillary Rodham Clinton, Michelle Obama, Suzanne Collins (author of the Hunger Games trilogy), and (as for literary characters) Katniss Everdeen.
[Author’s Note: For any Levo Ladies working in media or affiliated industries, check out the Alliance for Women in Media, which has free community membership and weekly news briefs on career progress for women in media.]](http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lz6mrw45mL1rnojvoo1_500.jpg)
![Part Three of Three : L(L) Speaks with Alliance for Women President Erin M Fuller on Leadership and Work-Life Integration.
Erin M Fuller is the President of the Alliance for Women in Media, the longest established professional association dedicated to advancing women in media and entertainment. With nearly 10,000 community members, the Alliance for Women in Media represents men and women engaged in creating high-quality media and harnessing the power of women in all forms of media to empower career development, engage in thought leadership, and drive positive change.
Ms. Fuller is on the advisory board for the Women in Politics Institute at American University and is the President of the American University Alumni Association Executive Board. She is a Fellow of the American Society of Association Executives and teaches as a guest lecturer on non-profit management at American University.
Prior to joining the Alliance for Women in Media, Ms. Fuller previously served as the executive director for Tysons Tomorrow and as the chief staff executive for the National Association of Women Business Owners.
L(L): What information do you think is most valuable for women to know about leadership, and about how to be an effective leader?
EMF: I’ve taken a lot of leadership classes and training, but really – I chafe a little at the idea that leadership is different for women than it is for men.
I think leaders are different by definition and there aren’t universal similarities that are true for all women leaders. Everyone’s heard that generalization that women are great at relationship building, nurturing, and collaborating but we all know women who are very successful but not collaborative. On the other hand, we see images of really cold and dreadful female leaders – think of the Miranda Priestly character in The Devil Wears Prada. I don’t like that there’s a dichotomy that the only people who are successful have to be that character.
Generation Y is lucky in so many ways. For the most part, you women have grown up with so much more diversity than previous generations and have seen women in far more advanced roles. You see leaders as leaders and not through a gender-based lens.
Leadership is about respect. I always think that you know it’s time to leave a job when you look at your boss and think, “I could do that job better than that person.” Ideally you want to look at someone and think “How on earth does she do what she does? I have no idea how she’s able to manage it so gracefully.” There’s a huge amount of leadership that is learned over time and you have to be patient and respect that.
The last thing I’ll say about leadership is it doesn’t hurt to have a sense of humor. To acknowledge the absurd or ridiculous that happens in one’s career. To be in charge doesn’t mean you’re not supposed to be able to laugh at what happens.
L(L): You’ve worked a lot with women leaders in the fields of politics, media and business. Within these distinct fields, what do you view as the biggest challenges women face?
EMF: The women’s movement isn’t over. It’s frustrating sometimes to hear how people approach this issue. For the first time in 2010, we lost ground in the Congressional elections. Today there’s a sense that because decades ago we burnt bras and now we have a few leaders like Carly Fiorina and Hillary Clinton, we’re done.
But we can’t be satisfied with having just a handful. In politics, we have a practice that women don’t run for office until their families are grown up. They don’t want to expose their kids and their personal lives to all the mudslinging that happens in political campaigns – especially to female candidates. As such we miss out on a whole bunch of seniority and leadership opportunities in our lifetimes. This is where gender equity is struggling.
As for media and business – we know media lags behind other industries. Only 3% of media companies have female CEOs. Generally speaking, women tend to shy away from opportunities where they are profit and loss concerns on the table, where there’s money to be made. We see a lot of women go into HR and Marketing, but you don’t make money in those functions. It’s often in sales and revenue generating parts of business where you’re more likely to make money and where there are more opportunities to be leveraged.
L(L): You’ve said before that one of your goals is to make gender-based organizations and the issues they face relevant to younger women. What is difficult about getting today’s young women energized around gender-based issues?
EMF: It is harder today to engage younger women in traditional gender based organizations – a lot of times people think, “Aren’t we done with that?” Sure, women make up 51% of the workforce – but you have a glass ceiling and a sticky floor. And the idea of work-life balance doesn’t help – I see it as a total myth.
L(L): Why is work-life balance a myth?
EMF: You stick around a job that’s become comfortable because you see it as the way you can balance everything.
We have the opportunity to bring enthusiasm around a whole new set of issues involving work-life integration. Young women don’t want to have to feel they are torn between work and home. I am a mom and I understand the conflict and stress involved. I think there’s a real opportunity for Generation Y to redefine work-life balance.
Work is more flexible now. Everyone has a smartphone. You have email access 24/7. If you really need someone, you text them. Whether you have to work at your desk or be in a cube – the bottom line is that work has crept into crevices beyond 9 to 5. For me –if I have to make a phone call at 2pm to get my kid on a summer camp list, I’ll do that and that’s okay. I know I’ll still be checking my e-mail at 9pm.
For aspiring young women today, I think work-life balance is an illusion and work-life integration is a reality. The good thing for young women to know is that greater autonomy comes the longer you work somewhere. If you’re the boss, you can set your own schedule.
Honestly, what you’re doing at 24 is not what you’ll be doing at 30, when you’re going to be grappling with more family issues. Some things have gotten better in the last decade – for instance, Dads are so much more hands-on. But it’s still really hard. I get paid to be an advocate for women – but I’ll tell you, I kill myself to drop my kids off to school, make nutritious meals for them, and do my own work. It’s really challenging. I would never give up my kids and I would never give up my job.
It’s such an exciting time to be working and to be part of so much newness going on – I’d hate for young women who also want families to give that up. We’re going in a new direction for what it means to be working.
L(L): Okay, last question. Ones to Watch. Most Powerful Women. Most inspiring. So many lists are out there… Who is on your list?
EMF: I’ll give you just a handful of my personal favorites: women across all types of media. Here goes!
Beyonce, Adele, Tina Fey, Kristen Wiig, Amy Poehler, Samantha Bee, Rachel Maddow, Hannah Storm, Katie Couric, Gayle King, Hillary Rodham Clinton, Michelle Obama, Suzanne Collins (author of the Hunger Games trilogy), and (as for literary characters) Katniss Everdeen.
[Author’s Note: For any Levo Ladies working in media or affiliated industries, check out the Alliance for Women in Media, which has free community membership and weekly news briefs on career progress for women in media.]](http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lz6mrw45mL1rnojvoo1_1280.jpg)